Have you made an effort to find out what the other person wants?
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Regardless of how big or small it may be?
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You do know that you could be the savior of the day, right?
I think we should enjoy being selfless and always try to know what the other person wants…although we hardly do so,right?
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Yyyyeeeaaahhhhhh….that’s a lovely thought, Dalene. It’s so sad about that other part, though! πβ€β
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Let me find out what βsheβ wants.
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Oohhhhh….perfect then! πβ€β
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Yes, I do. Especially when the other person is in a bad mood. However, I rather search for what is needed instead π
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Oooohhhhh….thatβs good of you, Chen! βπΌππ€β€οΈ
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well, i try to be considerate and think about it – but not only what the other person wants, but also what the other person needs, cause sometimes the need something that they don’t want – and that’s something to think about as well, is my opinion.
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Aaahhhh….I love your logic, Namra ! Makes all the sense in the world. ππ€β€οΈ
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More hugs to Chenπ
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Yyyyeeesssss, Doreen!
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That is so true, giving a person your time and being atune to their needs makes so much difference.
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I can dedinitely know what they really want girls will bebgirls and biya will be boys. It is easy to define.
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Hhhhhmmmmmm….alright Preet. If you say so! πβ€β
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This is so important! Taking the time and effort to see past yourself in a situation or relationship can make such a big difference.
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Oh yyyeeaahhhhh Heather! πβ€β
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Yes, I did that for so many times. It is really hard but at the end it’s worth it.
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Ooooohhhhh….Iβm glad to hear that, Batarra! ππ€β€οΈ
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Empathy and showing you actually care about the other person you interact with is the key to any meaningful communication or relationship. It would be impossible to genuinely relate to anyone without it. So important.
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Ooooohhhh….alright Nicole. If you say so! ππ€β€οΈ
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What a great reminder, thank you.
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Youβre welcome, Alexis! ππ€β€οΈ
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This is such an important thing to remember no matter what the relationship is to the person. Sometimes when it comes to having a working, friendly, or loving relationship you have to remember to listen, know, or do what the other wants not just what you want.
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Aalllrrriiigghhhhttttttt Cassie! If you say so. ππ€β€οΈ
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Exactly! Sometimes all it takes is having someone there to listen or to ask what they need. It seems like such a simple task but it’s so hard to do when your focus on yourself.
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Oh yeah! ππ€β€οΈ
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This is a good reminder for all of us! It can make a big difference!
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Indeed! ππ€β€οΈ
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Yes, by asking the question back to them is the easier way to find. It they themselves do not know then it is even harder for me to figure out.
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Oooohhhh….alright! If you say so. ππ€β€οΈ
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I think it all comes down to communication, and that’s not always easy.
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Hhhhhmmmmm….youβre right, Nancie! ππ€β€οΈ
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Hmmm…I’m not really good at “communicating” and I just try to guess what other people want from me rather than ask outright
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Hhhhmmmmm….would you want to get better at communicating, though Thea? ππ€β€οΈ
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This is great advice for communication. It is important to hear people’s needs.
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Ooohhh….thank you, Holly for appreciating. Always! ππ€β€οΈ
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Communication is the foundation of any relationship. I think talking and finding out about each other is important.
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Aaaahhhhh….alright Elizabeth! If you say so. πβ€οΈπ€
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Great thoughts! As the old saying goes, he who refreshes others will be refresh too!
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Oooohhhh…..thatβs a nice one, Eliza! πβ€οΈπ€
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