Is it your academics?

Is it your home?

Is it with those around and closest to you?

Is it your neighbor?

Is it the homeless person you by-passed today?

Is it the legislation of the central government?

Is it the parking tickets from Multiplex?

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Is it your spirituality?

Is it your religion and religious beliefs?

Is it the way you interact with those that left this world?

Is it the way you walk and talk?

Is it about your appearance, as a person?

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Is it the bad habits you constantly engage in?

Is it the behaviours you have, that make other people like you?

Is it the way you talk to other people?

Is it the way you carry yourself?

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Is it how you express yourself, verbally?

Is it how you help others express how they are feeling?

Is it how you manage to keep your affairs in proper order, daily?

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Does this question play a number on you?

WHAT DO YOU HAVE CONTROL OVER?

 

May be, it does….perhaps because you’ve never sat down to evaluate what you actually have control over and what you don’t.

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Perhaps, let’s look at some of the things that you absolutely have no control over

 

Your skin colour

The shape of your head and the rest of your body parts

Your name of baptism and birth

When the sun shines and where it shines and for how long it shines, a day

The moon and when it shines

The rains and when they fall and how powerful they can be or are

The cars and airplanes in the whole world

The colour of the soils

The number of sand-grains

How many plants that grown every day in the world

That list is quite endless, too….you realize that, right?

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That’s when we introduce the weighing scale

On one end, you’ll have to put the respective kilograms of the weights (what you have control over)

And on the other end, you’ll have to place there the respective weights of the materials you don’t have control over

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Depending on exactly what you want, you get the privilege of making the final decision.

After making that decision, you’ll need to make a way forward, with the decision made….WHERE DO YOU GO FROM THERE?

 

Are you ready to grab the life you want for yourself, which is sustainable, healthy, one that inspires somebody out there to emulate and take it on?

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THE CONTROL IS YOURS, THE DECISION IS YOURS ONLY TO MAKE AND THE LIFE IS YOURS TO LIVE.

 

 

 

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8 thoughts on “What do you have control over?

  1. I do believe we have control over everything in our lives. It’s what we choose to focus our power on that makes us strong individuals. If you forget to focus on one aspect of life, you may feel as though you’re powerless in that sector of your life, but that’s not true what so ever.

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