It’s hair….seriously, HAIR, that’s been loc’ed down
And not because it was done out of fear, like they made us believe all this time
…by the black people in “those communities”
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They never told us that “black is beautiful”
My inspiration to write tis came from a story I read, recently, of a young girl, 7 years of age, that defied the societal expectations set upon her and where she came from
This school she’s in, asked her not to come to school with her loc’ed hair with the reason that it would turn out “unhygienic”….
But then, her colleagues at school that aren’t black of her skin colour were granted the privilege of loc’ing their hair and moving to school freely, with it that way
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Imagine that….let it sink in for a moment
So, they proceed to court and guess what, the young lady with her shiny loc’ed black hair won the case against the school, on grounds of unjust treatment and inequality!
HISTORIC, if you ask me!
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I tried to imagine the level of fear that a 7 year old child would instill in her colleagues at school because of the hair she carries on her head….did it carry missiles in it, at one time?
Did it look so heavy to the eyes of so many that it seemed to explode in their faces at any second?
Was it just unacceptable for this child to have their hair and work it any way she deems fit?
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So many things came to mind but very many options for answers, as well
Being that I loc’ed mine as well, effective this year, 2018
I understand what she went through and her mother, too.
Ps. I’ll tell you my story about loc’ing someday but let me say this again, very strongly,
“THEY’RE locs AND NOT dread-locks ~ for there’s nothing to fear about them”
You know my 6yr old daughter saw a man with the longest locs she had ever seen & she was in awe! She couldn’t understand how he got it to grow so long & her unruly hair isn’t reaching her bottom yet! 😂
So tell us what is the difference with locs & dreadlocks?
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Hehe…..you’ve got the answer to that already! Thank you, Dee! 😊❤️🤗✊🏼
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i always loved to try them since i was child
but really feel sorry for the kid that so unfair,
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Oooohhhh….you can always don them, anytime, you know! 😊❤️🤗✊🏼
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Wow! That is so incredible. I had not read about this so thank you so much for sharing!
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😊😊 you’re welcome, Lauren! ❤️🤗✊🏼
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Very heart touching and beautiful story.
Loved your post ♥
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Very heart touching and beautiful story.
Loved it ♥
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Aaawwwww…thank you honey. 😊❤️🤗✊🏼
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Great post, thank you for sharing your experience. Your hair is beautiful!
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Aaaawwww…thank you! 😊❤️🤗✊🏼
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That 7 year old is an inspiration!! And i really like the message behind this story. Great post!
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Oooohhhh…thank you. I’m so glad to hear that! 😊❤️🤗✊🏼
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“THEY’RE locs AND NOT dread-locks ~ for there’s nothing to fear about them”
Love that quote
Oh and fun fact did you know the dread in dread locks actually means fear of the lord and is a term of respect in the rasta culture I once posted about my hair https://wp.me/p3NqTj-o9
~B
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Oooohhhhh….I didn’t know that, Beaton. Hhhmmmm, nice one! 😊❤️🤗✊🏼
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I just saw a commercial of a little girl who didn’t like her hair and her dad made it a point to highlight beautiful black women who embrace their curls. The little girl then did too.
My family is Latin with kinky curls and my granddaughter is pale complexion with straight hair. But she Mimicks everything we do, down to the battle with our curls and she has none lol.
The point I wanted to make is that everyone should grow up embracing how God made them. Curls, straight or locs but the media makes that so hard to do, it’s like they want a certain look to be the prominent look and if you don’t fit that mold antidepressants are waiting for you. Its crazy, but if we start at home like I’m sure that girl had as she found strength and confidence to go to court over it, then hopefully one day it will pick up speed In the world and change the outlook of others.
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😂😂😂 “and if you don’t fit that mold antidepressants are waiting for you”….so funny and true in the world today! I love that about you…embracing and loving who you are. 😊❤️🤗✊🏼
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Fantastic that this little girl won her case. Racism shows itself in many ways, and her winning is another win against racist decisions. Thank you for sharing.
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😍😍 you’re welcome, Trish! 🤗✊🏼
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I love these hair styles. I’ve found natural hair to be such a struggle.
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Aaaawwww….thank you. Hhhmmmm….may I ask why, though? 😊🤗❤️✊🏼
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Fantastic hair options! I wish I had my hair good enough for such styles. Everything looks so chic!
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Aaaawwww….that would be lovely, Lyosha! 😊🤗❤️✊🏼
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Do what you love.
Love what you do..
Lovely writeup..
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Yyyeeeaaahhhhh! Thank you, Krish! 😊❤️🤗✊🏼
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I love your hair! It is stunning! Thank you for sharing!
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Aaaawwww…thank you, Lauren! 😊🤗❤️✊🏼
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Cool style. I never had such funky do’s at my school. Quite a funky kiddo. Thanks for sharing Edgar!
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Aaaahhhh….trust me when I tell you, you missed out. You’re welcome! 😊❤️🤗✊🏼
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What the hell? It is hair people. Hair. I don’t think I have ever judged a person because of dreadlocks. If I did I would be missing out on a lot of cool people.
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Hehe…..alright Erica! If you say so. 😊❤️🤗✊🏼
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Is your story about loc’ing out yet, because I really wanna read it. I started my locs a month ago
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Aaahhhh….not yet, Ya! It will be out soonest, I assure you. 😍😍😍 Can you share a picture of your locs?
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